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Post – The Sound of Italy

The Sound of Italy

October 19, 2008
Dear family and friends,

Our Italy idyll ended Friday. So many sights, tastes and sounds – an embarrassment of …. You know. I’ll just tell you about some sounds.

A sound you won’t hear too much about in the guidebooks is the sound of song – “Avante populo, a la riscosa. Bandera rosa, bandera rosa.” Jack, Ben and I were returning to our hotel in Florence, a simple albergo, converted from a small “palazzo” where sweet silence or Vivaldi could be heard in its breakfast room – the taste of the owner who had a shelf of CDs. Ambling along, we heard loud talking in the street, many voices and that song – “Bandera Rosa” – an old communist anthem – like “Solidarity Forever.”

I know it from my childhood in Hashomer Hatzair (late 40’s and early 50’s). We sang that along with other radical standards. In this country where Berlusconi is reviled as much as Bush is in ours, a huge demonstration (5000) was gathering. They marched right by us in front of his party headquarters, lit firecrackers,

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Bandera Rosa

singing, carrying signs. What was it about? Berlusconi’s new tack is to move onto the schools and universities with a privatizing agenda and the marchers were angry. I couldn’t make out the details – it’s just that I was caught up in their spirit, the spirit of the masses; it was a return to my old young days of such singing and marching. Ben thinks we are listening to the beginning of the end of Berlusconi; we saw signs “Salve Italia” – Save Italy.

Another sound is the sound of talk. Consider the custom of the passeggiata – the time-honored tradition of “walking and talking” At around 6 o clock or so, the town, whatever town it is, emerges from its 3 hour quietude and goes out into the streets for the passeggiata. (Except for the major tourist attractions like the big museums, most shops and businesses shut down somewhere around 2. Only churches and a few cafes are open. Many streets are deserted.) I didn’t know about this “walking and talking” practice – became aware of it gradually. I began to notice the shocking absence of loud rock music. There were hardly any of those awful bars with angry screaming music and clusters of smokers that have infested my own neighborhood and lined Second Ave all the way from 7th St. to the 50’s. Instead of going to these kinds of talk-squelching habitats, the young Italians, … walk and talk. Imagine that. What a concept; talking as a diversion.  Scandalous.

Coffee Gelato

Coffee Gelato

I first noticed the phenomenon of talk and walk in Pisa along with our first swooningly delizioso gelato (coffee flavor – my favorite). Imagine Machiavelli exiled from his beloved Florence after the Medici regained power. He couldn’t talk. Depriving an Italian of talk must be akin to depriving a smoker of cigarettes.* For Machiavelli, talk deprivation would have been the most acute pain. A historian writes about talk in Florence: “Here, in many ways, was the key to Florentine republicanism: in the insistence on talk about taxes, public office, war, elections, civic leaders and everyday laws – in short, talk about politics….Florence above all, a city given to speech and full of extremely restless spirits.” In the talk department at least, it’s not a stretch to compare republican Florence with ancient Athens; after all, Aristotle wasn’t called a peripatetic for nothing! An early talk-walk person.

Finally, there is the sound of laughing. We stayed for a month in a restored farm-villa owned by friends of Ben and Jack some 10 km (about 6.2 miles) from the hill town of Volterra – an Etruscan stronghold way back when.

Sarcophogus - Etruscan couple

Sarcophogus – Etruscan couple

To go anywhere, we had to basically drive from our villa to Volterra first. Now 10 km is not very much – but the windy, curvy road to our place was completely unpaved and unmaintained. The craters were deep. The curves were like 359 degrees. 10km felt like 100. OK, what about laughing? The first few days I found myself white-knuckling it on that road (and on many other Tuscany roads up and down and around to the hill towns that we sought). After a while I decided to give up the white knuckles and just have a good time. What a strategy. On the 3 or 4 unforgettable patches in our road to/from Annunciata (our villa) we bounced up and down so hard that I almost strangled myself in my seat belt. There was such loud and raucous laughter that it probably reached the ninth Circle of Hell. (BTW, in Florence, we stayed in the house of Dante’s in-laws — nothing to write home about … but I am.)

Today, back in Amsterdam, I helped Jack in his garden. There is a kind of English romantic feel to it. Some wild flowers are allowed to flourish along with roses, Sweet William and other domesticates – as long as they respect their own territory and don’t try to take over. It may look like a mad mélange – but there is high poetic and

Sweet William in the wildness

Sweet William in Jack’s poetic garden

philosophical beauty. You could say that he has fostered a balance of power among the elite roses and the demotic wildflowers. Hmmmmm. It was so enjoyable, maybe I’ll volunteer a couple of hours in the communal garden on Jane Street (corner of 8th Ave.)

Arrivederci,
Sharon

*Here is the most famous letter in Italian literature. It was written by Machiavelli from his farm outside of Florence where he was self-exiled after being fired by the returning Medici. I read the letter aloud when we visited the site. I imagined him seeing his beloved duomo in the distance and longing for his old life of talk, politics, electioneering. But Jack observed that if he hadn’t been summarily truncated from that life, we might not have his masterpieces.

 

Post – Conversations of a Solitary Walker

Conversations of a Solitary Walker

Walking toward the Hudson River, Sam Weber remarked on the weather and the grayness of it.  Holding tight to Jack, his sturdy companion, he was able to fend off the pits and uneven curbs of the street.

Along the boardwalk two young mothers talked and secured the plastic wind shields on their baby carriages.  A couple made out on a bench. Another, huddled in windbreakers, read the Times and sipped their coffee from blue and white cups with faux Greek letters.  In the empty café, waiters stood around joking. Friends lined up at the rolling hot dog cart.  Shouting boys tossed a ball. A mutt and a golden retriever strained their leashes to sniff one another while their owners took up a chat.  Clustered seabirds caw-cawed.  An argument sputtered out.  A conversation ended.  Others began.

Across the river, the Lackawana Ferry tower clock showed 11:47.  “Come on, Jack.  Lunch time,”  Sam muttered to his cane.  “The Special’s extra special today.  Let’s get going.”

Post – Beauty, Getting Ready

Teeth White

Beauty – Getting Ready

 

 

 

 

June 4, 1999
Dear Scott,

The week before Memorial Day was seriously important for Lisa. She was getting ready for a big event – a photo-shoot or meeting with some Hollywood mogul. I am privy to only a teeny portion of the real story (you already know how secretive she is about her screen projects.  And remember how I was severely reprimanded for revealing the identity of one of her important friends in the Clinton entourage.)  I don’t understand it but I guess hush-hush comes with the territory – that of being a budding media presence.

Well, here we are in Woodstock. It’s Sunday late afternoon. It’s warm. It’s lazy. It’s Wagner. I’m lazily and happily immersed in the Ring. Lisa on the other hand has returned to the City. She’s getting all her ducks lined up for the impending event. She reviews the beauty arsenal and overall strategy:

waxing and shaving – done
nails manicured and polished (hands and feet) – done
massage and facial – scheduled Tuesday (already paid for)
hair – scheduled Tuesday

Everything is on target and looking good. She is in control and projects a steel calmness. She goes into the bathroom to brush her teeth. Oh. My. God.

Where the hell is her new Opalescence Tooth Whitening Gel kit (ADA accepted, American Dental Association, made by Ultradent Products, Inc. The Syringe People)?? She had jumped at the chance to buy it at discount in New York ($200). The normal cost in Beverly Hills for that kit and care was $1299.98

But where is the kit right now when she needs it? She panics. Terror, tears and heart murmurs set in as she realizes that it is exactly where she left it – sitting on a shelf IN YOUR WOODSTOCK HOUSE.

She freaks. Visions of herself in Transylvania with long brown teeth grip her. Visions of ridicule. Small boys and dogs laughing and barking at her. Heart racing, she picks up the phone. A lady answers, “Emergency 911, give me your number please.” Oh shit. She had dialed 911 instead of 411 (makes sense.) She redials and gets your number. You explain that Sharon is in the midst of listening to Das Rheingold. Reluctantly, Lisa talks to you instead . She chokes back her embarrassment and tries to be cool …. “Thanks so much for a wonderful weekend Scott. The bus ride was so lovely. It only took a few hours. I got home safely. Boy, it’s hot in the City… Oh and by the way, umm, would you mind passing on a little message to Sharon. Please ask her to bring home the teeth stuff tomorrow. She’ll know what that is. It’s on the shelf in the bedroom next to her L.L. Beane bag.”

Later, you give me the message. I nod but worry that Lisa is going to gag on the unfamiliar east coast summer weather which had come in with a vengeance overnight. We heard that it’s over 90 in the City. I leave a message on Lisa’s machine. “Hi Niecie. I hear its blazing hot in the city. There ARE air conditioners in the apartment. Your room should be cool enough with the cross breeze from the bathroom but feel free to sleep in my bedroom with its own air conditioner tonight. See you tomorrow. Hope you had a safe trip home.”

Lisa plays the message. “A safe trip home?? Oh. My. God. She didn’t say anything about my teeth stuff. Didn’t Scott tell her? Did he forget? Did she tune out when he was telling her? Or, maybe he told her and she forgot? What do I do now? I better call back again. Just to be sure. Gotta have that kit. Gotta bleach. Oh. My. God. “

Lisa decides to call. Again. She is so embarrassed. “Hi Scott, this is Lisa.” “Oh, hi”, you say. Silence. “Um, oh just checking in. (pause) Can I speak to my aunt?” “Oh”, you say, “She’s in the middle of her Wagner project.” (Pause) Lisa doesn’t say anything. You continue, “You know, in conjunction with Nietzsche. Right now she’s listening to Die Valkürie.” Lisa rolls her eyes. You go on, “It is exactly at the incredible part when the valkeries are flying around. I couldn’t possibly stop and interrupt her now.”

Lisa’s internal combustion revs up. “Not interrupt? This is a huge emergency. What the fuck do I say? I can’t just repeat what I already said about the teeth stuff. Maybe I should just try to call again later. … But suppose nobody’s there. I’d have to leave the same message. Oh. My. God. Oh screw it. I’ll just tell him. He’s understanding. I wonder if I should tell him to keep this under his hat. Not to tell anybody. Oh I’m so embarrassed. This is the worst thing that ever happened to me in my whole life. Part of me wants to melt into the woodwork and just forget it; the other part wants to just deliver the message and dare anyone to snicker. What do I do?”

She takes a big decision. She’ll go with nonchalance.

“Oh, that’s ok.”, she says. “Please don’t interrupt her.” Then, with just the right amount of insouciance, “I just wanted to remind her to bring my teeth stuff. It’s on the shelf near her Beane bag. I know I called yesterday. I’m just concerned about her forgetting. I mean I know I’m the one who forgot in the first place … but I’m concerned about Aunt Sharon. She’s always joking about memory over 50. She’s over 50, you know. I just didn’t want her to forget. She’s such a dear. You know, she would just feel awful if she forgot. We always remind each other – its our way of woman-relating. We’ve bonded so well, I wouldn’t want anything to screw it up. I’m sure you understand.”

You mumble, “Yeah, sure I’ll remind her.” This was NOT reassuring to Lisa who resisted but succumbed again to images of herself, dentally challenged, but now pictured on the front page of the Enquirer at the checkout line of every supermarket in the country. For distraction until I returned, she tried to while away the afternoon surfing the net, catching up on the latest scandals, reading Midsummer Night’s Dream (to prepare for the new movie) – all to no avail. Her anxiety dissolved only when I entered our apartment and handed her the teeth stuff. She whipped into the bathroom and closed the door. She performed the ablutions spelled out on the instruction sheet, praying that the skipped day wouldn’t make a serious difference.

I don’t know how the big event actually turned out.

Sharon

Post – I Wish I Were A Water Lily

I Wish I Were A Water Lily

Water Lilies by Monet

Water Lilies by Monet

April, 1999
Dear,
I can’t tell you how scared I am of the weather to come. It’s April 7th and already registering 92 degrees – smashing the record. Fear and trembling in the face of God, freedom and immortality can’t hold a candle to my fear of the heat that lurks and prepares to cook us. Those degrees are in league; they are uniting and assembling into an inferno. Do you remember how there’s no cooling in the evening? Do you remember how here in the City, the degrees don’t expire as the sun goes down? They simply soak themselves into the sidewalks and the buildings. Then, when you are gasping and ready to scream – please, please no more, there is just silence and indifference and you are driven at 3 or 4 in the morning to take yet another shower. Once we walked hand in hand in the garden at 104th Street and admired the lilies suspended in the coolness of the pond. Now we don’t admire as much as wish we were those lilies. Soon we will be … or sand.

Sharon

Jane Street Flea Market

The Jane Street annual block sale

I live on Jane Street.  What has been stored in closets all year comes out onto the street at the annual Jane Street block sale.  Thank God, I managed to resist buying anything for my own closet.

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Manual food processor – maybe I should have grabbed this.

 

 

JaneStSale-0624These lamps are probably politically incorrect.

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Note photographer’s toes.

 

 

 

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Take the ram by the horns.

 

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JaneStSale-0619Haven’t you always wanted a wireless ice bag?

 

 

 

 

 

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Timely – Russia just annexed Crimea (June 2014).

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Actually, this is one that got away.  But where would I have put it?

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“It’s venice glass”, he whispered.

 

 

 

 

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They don’t make these anymore.

 

 

 

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Chutzpah: He asked, “how much?”  I said, “A dollar.” He said, “Can you do any better than that?”

 

 

 

 

 

Excursion to Mana Contemporary

With an IRP group, I visited  a vast new art expanse in Jersey City- Mana Contemporary.   From the Christopher Street PATH Station, it’s very quick trip. Mana is such a New York story – begun in Manhattan when a 25 year old down-and-out Israeli painted a truck red and emblazoned it with “Moishe’s.”  Pretty soon, those trucks were all over; the company business was moving and eventually storage.

Moishe's red trucks all over town

Moishe’s red trucks all over town

A few years later, Moishe Mana was very visible and very rich.   With his new riches, his own interest in art and an artist  friend, another grand (and crazy) idea was born – to transform the  decaying industrial wasteland of Jersey City into an artist’s paradise.  It would be called it “Mana Contemporary.”

 

 

The vision wasn’t so crazy.  Now you walk here … through the unassuming gate.  Surprise!  So many buildings and construction – exhibition spaces, artist studios, machinery, printing and scanning devices, dance studio, latest technologies.  All artists’ needs – from materials, storage, exhibition and performance spaces, a foundry are available AND – here’s the best – mostly all viewable by the public.  What you see in this unusual complex is not only exhibitions of concepts or finished pieces, but art in the actual making.  Smell the paint and hear the chisels.  Under construction are residences and there’s a plan for a hotel to accommodate the anticipated flood of visitors who will need 2 – 3 days to get the full view and  a complete frisson.

Mana-0669Our excellent docent Sari (sp?), led us through the labyrinth of Mana.

 

 

 

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A Table of Contents

First stop – first stop – the boiler room of Mana,  formerly a tobacco factory.

The boiler room

The boiler room

Then Richard Meier

 

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Richard Meier talking with Claude

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Here Meier and his own model museum inside the main building –  models of  his buildings and sculptures from metal and wood; e.g.  – the Getty in the Santa Monica mountains.  Sketches.  He’s talking with our  Claude.   His daughter Ana Meier is a furniture maker.  She has her own wing within the Meier area.

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Not only walls but floors are artworks too.

The polished floor of an exhibition hall is its own artwork..

Mana-0694Pollocks?  No. just parts  of some studio floor.

 

 

 

 

 

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In another building – the Glass Factory, a burst of air, glass and whimsy.

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